MEDIA & ARTICLES
Grit & The Grace
The REAL Change Grit and Grace celebrates transformative change, designed to support individuals navigating life’s complex challenges with clarity, resilience, and purpose.
We talk a lot about how trauma teaches the nervous system to recognize danger. But what about safety? Emerging research suggests that reducing fear and learning to recognize safety may not be the same thing. Perhaps healing isn't only about quieting the alarm. It may also be about learning to notice the safety signals that have been there all along.
In an increasingly polarized world, empathy may depend on more than communication skills. It may depend on our ability to tolerate uncertainty. Exploring psychology, identity, and human connection, this article examines the hidden relationship between uncertainty resilience and compassion.
Humans are wired to find patterns even when none exist. Our brains crave meaning, reward us with dopamine when we “connect the dots,” and prefer tidy stories over uncertainty. That’s why conspiracy theories feel so satisfying. Conspiracies simplify chaos, assign villains, and affirm belonging. But when we seek certainty over evidence, our detective minds turn into storytellers. Real wisdom lies not in rejecting patterns, but in questioning them by asking, “What else could be true?”
Interviews
Aleka’s interviews highlight her expertise in integrating authenticity and strategic insight into her work, demonstrating how she empowers individuals and businesses to achieve their true potential and stand out in their fields.
Want to know more about parts work? I am honored to be featured on Shauna VanBogart’s amazing podcast, ‘Just being’. Together we dive into the transformative and often intimidating world of our inner parts and how to navigate the terrain.
Self – Love is such a buzz word in the self help world, but how do we actually DO it? In this video we go deep into the REAL nuts and bolts to loving yourself.
“What’s my purpose?” It’s a question I get asked ALL the time. It is an important question to contemplate on a path of living an inspired life. In this video we define just what purpose is and how to connect with yours.
Astrology
New Moons and Full Moons and everything in between.
If change feels like chaos right now, it makes sense. Mercury retrograde in Scorpio and a tense Pluto square are stirring what we thought was settled. But this Taurus Full Moon offers another kind of wisdom: steadiness. Not all growth is visible, and not every moment calls for action. Sometimes the work is finding the eye of the storm.
The Libra New Moon arrives with the scales already in motion. With Venus retrograde in Scorpio, what has been hidden may be harder to ignore. This lunation asks us to look beneath what we value, weigh what we find, and wrestle with the consequences. Sometimes the scales tip toward release. Sometimes toward what is worth protecting.
The Aries Full Moon asks us to reconsider what courage looks like now. Anger can tell us something matters, but what we do with that fire is up to us. This lunation invites us to look beneath what we oppose, consider what we truly stand for, and ask a deeper question: What do you love enough to stand up for?