MEDIA & ARTICLES
Grit & The Grace
The REAL Change Grit and Grace celebrates transformative change, designed to support individuals navigating life’s complex challenges with clarity, resilience, and purpose.
In an increasingly polarized world, empathy may depend on more than communication skills. It may depend on our ability to tolerate uncertainty. Exploring psychology, identity, and human connection, this article examines the hidden relationship between uncertainty resilience and compassion.
Humans are wired to find patterns even when none exist. Our brains crave meaning, reward us with dopamine when we “connect the dots,” and prefer tidy stories over uncertainty. That’s why conspiracy theories feel so satisfying. Conspiracies simplify chaos, assign villains, and affirm belonging. But when we seek certainty over evidence, our detective minds turn into storytellers. Real wisdom lies not in rejecting patterns, but in questioning them by asking, “What else could be true?”
We humans spend much of life keeping uncertainty at bay through habits, biases, and identities that steady us. Yet, uncertainty is not just a threat, it’s also an opening. The brain’s prediction errors make us vigilant, but they also prime us for learning. By cultivating identity complexity, humility, and curiosity, we transform uncertainty from something to fear into an invitation to grow, connect, and imagine new possibilities.
Interviews
Aleka’s interviews highlight her expertise in integrating authenticity and strategic insight into her work, demonstrating how she empowers individuals and businesses to achieve their true potential and stand out in their fields.
Want to know more about parts work? I am honored to be featured on Shauna VanBogart’s amazing podcast, ‘Just being’. Together we dive into the transformative and often intimidating world of our inner parts and how to navigate the terrain.
Self – Love is such a buzz word in the self help world, but how do we actually DO it? In this video we go deep into the REAL nuts and bolts to loving yourself.
“What’s my purpose?” It’s a question I get asked ALL the time. It is an important question to contemplate on a path of living an inspired life. In this video we define just what purpose is and how to connect with yours.
Astrology
New Moons and Full Moons and everything in between.
This Gemini New Moon invites us to rethink old assumptions, question inherited narratives, and make space for new understanding. As Chiron enters Taurus for the first time in nearly fifty years, the focus begins to shift from who we are to what we value. Together, they ask a powerful question: What are we truly building our lives around?
As the pace of collective change accelerates, grounding becomes essential. This Taurus New Moon is an invitation to reconnect to the body, to nature, and to what is truly meaningful beneath the noise, pressure, and intensity of the moment.
After weeks of emotional turbulence and deep transformation, this lunation reminds us that growth also requires rest, integration, and steadiness. Sometimes wisdom is not found in pushing harder, but in slowing down long enough to breathe, recalibrate, and listen more closely to what is asking to emerge next.
This Sagittarius Blue Moon illuminates one of the defining tensions of our time: the relationship between information, belief, meaning, and wisdom. Opposing a Uranian Gemini Sun and activated through the Virgo-Pisces nodal axis, this lunation asks us to examine not only what we believe, but how our beliefs shape perception, identity, and the stories we live inside. A reflection on meaning-making, discernment, spiritual bypassing, and the difference between wisdom that opens us to reality and certainty that closes us against it.