M E E T 

Aleka Thorvalson

Aleka Thorvalson is an ICF PCC-certified Life Coach with over 20 years of experience in holistic, transformational coaching. She is the founder of THE R E A L® Coaching Method, an integrative, psychologically grounded framework designed to help clients navigate the uncertainty and potential of change with clarity and integrity.

Aleka’s journey began with a deep interest in the mind–body–spirit connection. Her early work as a Neuromuscular Therapist and Nutritional Counselor laid the foundation for a holistic lens that would continue to evolve. At Ai Pono, an intensive outpatient clinic for eating disorders, she collaborated with psychologists and psychiatrists, deepening her understanding of the psychological roots of healing and transformation.

As a seasoned mentor and trainer, Aleka supports aspiring coaches and therapists in gaining advanced knowledge and skills. Her highly sought-after mentorship training programs, offered virtually and in-person, are rooted in ICF coaching principles and emphasize the importance of an ethical and professional coaching practice.

In parallel with her professional practice, Aleka is completing graduate-level work focused on belief psychology, uncertainty resilience, and ethical integrative coaching. Her academic work explores how humans make meaning under conditions of uncertainty and how spiritual frameworks, trauma, identity, and cognitive bias can either support genuine transformation or reinforce avoidance and false certainty. This includes careful study of coercive control, undue influence, and the dynamics of high-demand or destructive belief systems. This research informs her commitment to psychologically grounded, trauma-aware, and ethically responsible coaching practices.

Aleka also works with astrology through a Jungian and depth-psychological lens, treating it as a symbolic language for exploring meaning, developmental cycles, and life transitions. Her approach is non-predictive and grounded in self-reflection, using astrological symbolism to support insight, agency, and personal responsibility rather than certainty or fate.

Aleka is dedicated to upholding the highest standards of integrity, ethics, and compassion in her work. She honors the complexity of the human experience and the nonlinear nature of change, especially during times of uncertainty. Her mission is to support people in navigating life’s transitions with clarity, discernment, and realness—meeting challenge honestly and cultivating transformation that is both grounded and enduring.

CERTIFICATIONS

  • Positive Psychology Coaching: Empowering clients with techniques that promote well-being and resilience.

  • Internal Family Systems (IFS) Trained: Helping clients understand, navigate, and integrate their inner parts to realize their whole SELF.

  • Conflict Resolution and Assertiveness Training: Equipping clients with the tools to handle interpersonal challenges effectively.

  • Cognitive-Behavioral Tools: Providing practical strategies for managing thoughts and behaviors and their impact on your life.

  • Professional Astrologer: Offering deep insights through astrological analysis and consultation.

Aleka is also an active member of the International Coach Federation and is affiliated with the International Association of Counselors and Therapists. Her ongoing commitment to personal and professional growth is reflected in her continuous pursuit of advanced education and training in various modalities. Aleka is a member of SEEK Safely, an organization dedicated to maintaining the highest ethical standards in helping professions. With a passion for integrity and holistic well-being, Aleka prioritizes safety, transparency, and accountability, ensuring clients receive guidance in a trustworthy, supportive environment on their journey to self-discovery, healing, and empowerment.

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V A L U E S

I am committed to…

THE REAL

Acknowledging complexity to make steadfast change possible.

THE TRUTH

Honoring the real within the hard.

THE SHADOW

Leading people to safely seek into the unknown places within themselves, shining the light on what is yet undiscovered so it can be healed, released, or reclaimed.

THE SAFETY

Holding space with compassion and sturdiness so you feel heard, seen, and understood.

THE CHANGE

Offering real tools to enable actual transformation.

THE RESPONSIBILITY

Honoring the professional guidelines, boundaries and ethics of the craft.

THE INTEGRITY

Honoring the multifaceted nature of our humanness and the parts that make us whole.

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Assisting people in realizing THE REAL.

Through the tools of healing + transformation + inspiration. We go through the shadow with dragon char and cave dust emerging into the light where THE CHANGE happens.